Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Awaiting Tate...& his arrival!

There are tons of pics of this day and I am SO happy because I was a little out of it, had a reaction to my epidural, had my epidural wear off, I wasn't progressing, etc. so I am so grateful my amazing momma took all these. My parents are the best. They stayed there ALL day waiting for Mr. Tate to come. I felt bad it was taking so long. I went in Monday night to get cervadil, Dr. Boheen broke my water & started pitocin in the morning. I went all day & didn't progress past a 3 1/2. She thought he was going to be pretty big, & after I had been contracting all night & day, she thought it was best that we proceed with a c-section. I knew it was a possibility, but really still wasn't expecting it. I was fine with it, but got really nervous as they were wheeling me in. I was sooo excited to finally see my baby's sweet face, but I was so nervous. I've never had surgery or really ever even hurt myself. The worst I've had was stitches when I was 29 & I made my mom hold my hand for it! Everything went great though. I loved my doctor & my nurses. Anesthesia was so nice too, explaining everything that was going on during the surgery, especially after Bobby left with the baby. My epidural had worn off when I was waiting to go back (they had a walk-in last minute that had to go back before me), & I don't think my meds ever got caught back up because I could feel everything, which I knew feeling pressure was normal, but it hurt really badly still. I felt so much pain immediately afterwards too, & got a medication to help. It made me really loopy & out of it though. It was really scary & made everything so intense. I felt like people were everywhere, I couldn't focus my eyes, I felt like I couldn't even hold the baby. I guess to everyone else I seemed normal, just really quiet. Livy noticed that something wasn't quite right though, & she stayed by my side the whole time feeding me ice. It was so so sweet & definately made me feel better. I had a hard time remembering alot, but I didn't forget how she was right by me. It was a crazy experience, I really didn't know what to expect, but it was the most amazing day & experience of my life and I will never be the same. Tate is the most wonderful thing to ever happen to me. I have such an immense amount of love for him. I'm so grateful to my husband, Livy, & my parents for sitting with me all day & being there to share this wonderful blessing. Thanks again Mom for helping document the whole day in photos. It is so so special to me.
 

 My cute mom brought me this worry doll because she knew I was nervous about everything. I actually made her this doll when I was little. I got the idea from when we would always drive to Arizona to see my grandma Nannie. There were always native americans on the side of the road selling beautiful jewelry, arrowheads, & these dolls that came in a little pouch. I really don't even remember making it, but I am quite the nerd & always made my mom little crafts like this. How cute of her to keep it! I really loved it & was so glad she brought it. I held it in my hand during my whole c-section. Between it & my sweet husband sitting right by me stroking my face I did okay.
This is one of my cute nurses Amy. She was showing me what the contractions look like on the monitor & printout. Emily was my other nurse, & was there when I delivered. They were both amazing & made it such a special experience for me.

Cute Liv was there & didn't want to miss anything. She took such good care of me too. She's such a sweetheart.

We got Liv a special big sister gift. It's a necklace with two little solitaire ring charms. One with Tate's birthstone, & one with hers. It's so cute & I'm so glad she loved it. Sometimes I don't have the cool factor with the 12 yr. olds ;) So I was so glad she liked it.
I have oxygen on because I had a reaction to my epidural. The epidural wasn't bad itself at all. Although I really don't think they should show you that thing in your childbirth class! The size of that needle is terrifying! My blood pressure went down to 60/30 & I felt really dizzy. Bobby & Amy were on it quick though, & gave me medicine to fix it. It was pretty scary, I started blacking out & felt really dizzy. It even made Bobby nervous, & he doesn't get nervous! It didn't take too long for me to feel better though.

She is so cute & photogenic :)

Liv took such good care of me feeding me ice all the time. It was so nice to have my little nurse by my side ;)

This is the monitor they use to measure all our vitals & contractions

 

 

 

 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Friday, August 24, 2012

6th grade graduation

Liv is so grown up! I can't believe she is done with elementary school & will start junior high in the fall! Crazy! Gram & Pop joined us for her graduation. They are so sweet.
So proud of Liv! She had quite the stack of awards by the time we left. Way to go sweetie! We are so proud of you!
 

Yes I am embarassing & always have my camera

 
Liv with one of her many awards. Way to go girl!
 

Liv & Gram. Pop had rearranged his busy work day to come, but had to leave early. All her awards took a chunk of time to hand out ;)

New profession??? jk

Had to put this pic in. Liv can grow her some eyebrows, & she wanted me to wax them. We were both pretty impressed with my work. I was surprised! I was nervous I would screw them up. I actually did give her a little scab on each side :( lesson learned though!
 

How to be pregnant in July

 
So these are not the most flattering photos, although who looks fantastic the last few weeks before birth? Actually my own sister does, but anyhow :) I just wanted to remember Tate in my belly because I really did love being pregnant. I also wanted to remember how I coped with being pregnant in the summer. Everyone knows I hate to be super hot & July (until now) is my least favorite month of the year. My sweet hubby would fill my kiddie pool up & we would sit outside soaking my swollen legs & feet in the cold water. It was my FAVorite!
 



 
And yes, those are my underwear instead of my swimmy bottoms. I can't remember why I even did that!

Friend Shower

My sweet friends did a wonderful job on my friend shower. It was all so cute. I feel bad because it was a rough day for a few of them; cars breaking down, getting cut off on the freeway & food flying, smashed cupcakes & fruit pizza. It all turned out great though & was absolutely darling! I feel bad it was such a hectic day for them! Thank you to Annie, Ashley, & Tisha for doing a fabulous job! Thank you to all my sweet friends that came & spoiled me n Tate! Love all my girls!
Xoxo








                                                                                                  My cutie friend Heather
Annie made this bassinet with all sorts of goodies in it. It was so cute that Liv thought we should take pics of Tater in it ;)
 

           
Ashley & CJ, Annie & Avery, Tisha with Corbin in her belly                                   

                                 



Addison & Russie, Cami & Landry, & Vincie with Ryker

Welcome Tate!

My mom & sisters threw me & Tater a shower. It was jungle-themed & so super-cute! My mom is so creative & has excellent taste, so of course it was all absolutely darling. She is the best! It was so fun. My in-laws, my mom's side of the fam, & close family friends came. It's always so fun to get together, & especially for such a wonderful occassion as my sweet Tater :)
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
My dad's new waterfall. He did an awesome job!
 

 
Me & my lovie Liv
 
 
How cute is this?! My sister Ashley made it

 
Ashley & Maelee, Tessie, Me, Lindsay, & Liv
 

 
Vincie & Terry Edwards
 

 
My aunt Becky, cousin Holly & her boy Griffin, Natalie (my cousin Justin's wife) & her adorable girls Chaselyn & Hadley
 
 
My cute in-laws Angie & Lainey, Becky & Avery, Sandi, & Mandi

 
Ash & Linds, & the Lythgoe girls Marjean, Laura, & Katy


 
My beautiful & sweet momma
 
 
Even Livers got some gifts! Lucky girl
 
The shower was wonderful! Thank you Mom & girls!!! XOxo